We have 3 adult children.....two sons and a daughter. The oldest is Free Spirit, the middle is Captain America and the youngest is Miss.Queen.
Having children is the greatest gift known to man. It is also a massive responsibility and the fear and uncertainty are crippling. I enjoy all of my children even when I don't understand or agree with the choices that they make. Each one of them are decent, kind, loving individuals and we are blessed.
They are all my favorite child for different reasons......
The Free Spirit and my oldest was the person that finally taught me what loving someone else more than yourself actually feels like. When he was born I knew why I existed. His very being took my breath away. He is the child who lives for experiences instead of material goods. There is a special bond with the first born and for that reason he is my favorite child.
Captain America is the most like I am in personality. We both love to read, explore and question. Our relationship has always been easy because we can understand each other without even talking. He is the child that needs me the least and I get the most. He also gets me and for that reason he is my favorite child.
Miss. Queen is my beautiful daughter. I would not be complete without a daughter and she is at times my greatest friend and my greatest critic. Mothers and daughters struggle because I think at times mothers try to relive their lives through the choices that daughters make and that is impossible and unfair. She is a wonderful mother to my fabulous grandson, she is my daughter, the person I see the most of myself in other than my mother which is similar and I find joy in watching her take on the world and that is the reason she is my favorite child.
